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This post was created on the previous version of the MRFF website, and may not be fully accessible to users of assistive technology. If you need help accessing this content, please reach out via email.I have read several of Mr. Weinstein’s quotes concerning religious proselytizing especially in the military. I don’t understand why he feels so threatened by someone voicing their opinion concerning their beliefs. Everyone has an opinion and whether it is right or wrong does not mean you have to listen, except or receive. The only religion that I am aware of that gives you a choice to convert or die is the Islamic Muslim religion which states in the Koran that any person that is not a convert or will convert to Islam including a Muslim is an infidel and will be eliminated. Catholics, Jews, Protestant, Buddhist, Seventh day Adventist, Ladder day Saints, Scientology, New Age Movement, Satanist, Atheist, Agnostic or any other religion, all have an agenda to proselytize. Christians just happen to be moved by their beliefs in Jesus Christ and want to share what He has done with them, through them and for them. Whether you believe their beliefs are rehortric or truth it is up to the person to receive. If I can talk you into something then most likely someone else can talk you out of that one thing unless a stronger power has changed you. The Christian religion is about the Holy Spirit entering you and changing your heart. It is based specifically and absolutely on Jesus dying on the cross for the sins of man. This is called having Faith in Christ Jesus due to the fact we are all sinful in need of a savior/redeemer to take this burden of sin that man is unable to remove. Our sin separates us from a Holy and Righteous God. It also states that Jesus arose from the dead on the third day and then ascended to the right hand of God the Father. Unlike the other religions you are constantly working to prove or gain approval by your actions or deeds. Jesus completely removed the sins of the world. You or anyone has to believe this is true or not. As mentioned earlier Christianity is received by one way and that is “For it is by grace [God’s remarkable compassion and favor drawing you to Christ] that you have been saved [actually delivered from judgment and given eternal life] through faith. And this [salvation] is not of yourselves [not through your own effort], but it is the [undeserved, gracious] gift of God who loves you. Loves you enough to take a penalty or guilt by others do death so they/you can have life and have it abundantly.
Did you see that? God’s remarkable compassion and favor “drawing you” to Christ. So how in the world can someone proselytize you or anyone?
I am not sure why this is so offensive to you or anyone because if you don’t agree don’t listen. Say, I am not interested and would rather not speak about it. We don’t live in a communist country that requires a person to act, believe and live a set way.
You seem to be very educated individuals at least from a academia standpoint so why are you so bent on stopping something that is unstoppable. If Christianity is truth, then a person no matter what their education level or military status says; does not convince you that Christianity is absolute. It is the God of Christianity Jesus Christ that impresses and causes the conversion. Since you are Jewish then you certainly understand that Abraham was not confronted by a person he was confronted by God and by three angels. He was considered righteous because of his “FAITH”!
If you look back in history there have been numerous dictators, kings, rulers and authority figures that have tried to stamp out the belief in Jesus Christ all to no avail. I don’t understand why you are so threatened by Jesus Christ??? Why are you so angry?? I don’t agree with the stance that Target is taking concerning transgender and homosexual restrooms. I just will not go to Target anymore…simple.
Maybe you are angry because their just may be some truth in what “TRUE” Christians are saying”. No one has authority over you. There are laws to abide by and there are powers that enforce them but no matter what power, authority or laws we have if Christianity is about JESUS CHRIST then you will NEVER stop it because there is no defense.
(name withheld)
Your commitment to your particular version of religious faith is clear, even though much of your message is not. We have no problem with you believing what you believe, just as we have no problem with others believing as they choose.
You are mistaken to think anyone here is threatened by your belief system. You are welcome to it, just as are those who have other beliefs. The MRFF is only interested in honoring and protecting the separation of church and state, as proposed by the founders of this nation and established in law. This practice, which is fundamental to America, is intended to protect everyone’s right to believe or not believe as she or he chooses. So the government, or in this case the military which is part of the government, may not promote one particular belief system over the others.
So you see, when in the military your need to spread the Christian faith must be constrained by law and military regulations so that it only takes place at the proper time and in the proper place and manner. I hope that helps you to understand the situation more clearly.
As to the rest of your message, your slur against Islam, your assumption that anyone here is angry at or fearful of Christianity, your inference that the founder of the MRFF’s heritage has anything to do with the work of the organization and your ignorance about sexuality are a pathetic mixture of nonsense and bigotry.
Mike Farrell
(MRFF Board of Directors)
1. has a significant secular (i.e., non-religious) purpose,
2. does not have the primary effect of advancing or inhibiting religion
3. does not foster excessive entanglement between government and religion
Mr. Challman,
out of all the responses that I have received from MRFF yours has been the kindest and the most civil. I greatly appreciate your explanation and the points you make are very viable and true. You are correct, I personally was not in the military…I certainly wish I would have taken that career path because of the structure, gratitude, HONOR, experience and other rewarding attributes that a person receives and gives to be a military person. Not to mention the honor to serve and protect the U.S.
With that said what is the agenda of the MRFF? I have read the MRFF mission statement, about MRFF and Mr. Weinstein’s statement and I quote “We have managed to wage an effective fight against this religious fundamentalist scourge in the media, courts, and halls of the Pentagon facing violent opposition from those who seek to do grave harm to our service members’ rights”.
What grave danger are you referring too?
What religious fundamentalist group is jeopardizing the men and woman of our armed forces?
Media??- The liberal media hates everything about Christians unless you are living under a rock or listening to a different news cast than the rest of the world, I don’t understand.
What rights of the armed forces have been or tried to be harmed?
You are absolutely correct Mr. Challman, I am a Christian, saved by Gods mighty Grace in which He sent His beloved son to die on the cross for a sinful fool like me. Apart from the birth, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ I am doomed to an eternity in hell.
I cant make you accept this belief nor would I want to. I would love to sit down with you and tell you what Jesus has done in and through my life but only if you desired. If I was a full bird Colonel active in the U.S.A.F I would not on no circumstances force, threaten or order you to listen or accept by belief in Jesus Christ. I would hope you would see Him in me and through me by the way I live my life on a daily basis. Sir, I greatly appreciate your desire to make a change. The MRFF may succeed in wiping out Christianity in the armed services but you or no one in this world will ever remove the voice of loving and caring individuals like myself from desiring to tell you and others about JESUS. Not force but tell. The ability to receive and accept JESUS is totally up to you SIR. I am so very sorry that you or Mr. Weinstein has been subjected to a radical fundamentalist so called Christian person or group that has approached you in a non-loving manner. This is not a reflection of Christ nor is it a reflection of His people.
May God bless you Sir
(name withheld)
Thanks for the response, (name withheld).
I appreciate the opportunity to have this exchange with you. Be blessed.
Dear (name withheld) –
I am writing in response to your May 12, 2016 email to the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (“MRFF”). While I respond to many letters, I must admit that yours was very thoughtful and you make some interesting points. That said, it is clear to me that you misunderstand the mission of MRFF.
Your position consists of three points: (1) People do not have to listen to or accept the religious beliefs others share with them; (2) Belief in Christianity involves the Holy Spirit changing a person’s heart, so no mere person can convert another; and (3) If Christianity is “truth,” no efforts can stop it. Please allow me to address each of these points.
(1) Your first point might seem reasonable upon a cursory glance, but it completely disregards the context of a military environment. As ordinary citizens, we are free to say, “No, thank you,” when a neighbor, classmate, coworker, or stranger approaches us to share their religious beliefs. I can choose to not shop at Hobby Lobby or patronize Chick-Fil-A because I disagree with the beliefs and actions of their owners – just like you can choose to not shop at Target.
However, service members do not have this same freedom of choice. When a leader at a military academy begins a required event with a prayer, cadets are not free to simply leave the room. When a military superior invites his or her subordinates to religious events, the freedom to decline is an illusion – particularly when those who attend are subsequently favored. Further, retaliation is a very real consequence suffered by service members and cadets who refuse to participate and/or report such constitutional violations. Our clients come to us with such complaints because they are legitimately afraid of the consequences they will suffer if they personally stand up for their own rights.
Moreover, service members should not be expected or required to ignore constitutional violations. Even if they can choose to not recite the prayer delivered by their superior without fear of consequence, the prayer itself is a blatant violation of the Establishment Clause of the First Amendment. The law does not require any citizen to stand aside and remain silent when confronted with unconstitutional actions, even if doing so would be the easier choice. Just as the police are not permitted to search our homes without probable cause even if we have nothing to hide, military superiors are not permitted to endorse one religion over others even if those under their command can hum a jaunty tune instead of listening such endorsement.
(2) MRFF is not concerned with whether service members are actually converted to Christianity. Our mission is to protect service members from the wrongful attempt to convert them to any religion, as well as from religious discrimination and the wrongful endorsement of one religion over others, or of religion over non-religion. These actions violate the Establishment Clause of the First Amendment and the prohibition against any religious test of Article VI. Consequently, it is irrelevant whether or not Islam – or any other religion – proclaims that those who do not convert should die or otherwise be punished. Our work is not about which, if any, religion is “right” – it is about whether actions within the military and related to religion obey the mandates of the Constitution.
You may be correct that all religions include an agenda to proselytize. However, all of the complaints we receive involve the wrongful proselytizing, coercion, or retaliation by Fundamentalist Christians. Therefore, our work primarily consists of challenging the recitation of Christian prayers, the erection of Christian displays, the invocation of a Christian God, and other actions of military superiors who identify as Christians. While you may see our work as a fight against Christianity, nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, over 96% of our clients are Christians of various denominations who have suffered religious discrimination or persecution.
Interestingly, your point that only God can truly draw anyone to Christ actually supports our mission – If, as you claim, “the Christian religion is about the Holy Spirit entering you and changing your heart,” regardless of the actions of mere humans, then the proselytization, coercion, and/or retaliation by military superiors is clearly nothing more than a violation of the constitutional rights of service members.
(3) Just as MRFF is not concerned with whether service members are actually converted to any religion, we are concerned with stopping Christianity. We are not working to stop or refute the beliefs of any religion. Our mission is solely to protect all of our brave men and women in uniform from unlawful religious proselytization, intimidation, discrimination, and persecution. These service members sacrifice so much to protect our constitutional rights – including the right of religious freedom – and we work tirelessly to ensure that they are free to exercise those same rights.
We are not threatened by Jesus Christ, nor do we desire to “stamp out the belief in Jesus Christ” or “[stop] the unstoppable.” Again, we do not claim that Christianity is wrong or that any religion, or no religion, is right. This country was founded upon democratic principles and the Constitution forbids the establishment of any religion – regardless of the merits of any such religion.
I stated earlier that your email was thoughtful and you made some interesting points. Yet, all the thoughtful points you made concern the validity of Christianity without regard to the mandates of the Constitution. The First Amendment forbids the establishment of ANY religion – even if one religion might be the “truth.” You admit that “there are laws to abide by and there are powers that enforce them.” Well, we are one of those powers and our mission is to enforce those laws.
Blessed be,
Tobanna Barker
MRFF Legal Affairs Coordinator
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